What's the secret of loving life and being a carefree teenager?
When you're a teenager there are so many doubts you constantly believe in and most times you can't get rid of them. Either you think you have it all and in the twinkling of an eye everything changes or you think all the other girls are perfect and you are just a little invisible something.
First instance:
It's often hard to pretend that you're okay even if you're incredibly sad because life changes over a couple minutes and you can't take back whatever you did or said that led you into this whole crappy situation.
But often you've got to chose: either you run away from the problem or you face it and learn from it.
1. So far i learned that most times it's okay to pretend like the girl made of titanium with the heart out of steel. I guess that type of girl would choose the first option, and that's okay sometimes, but you can't always run away from your problems. It's better to face them, which leads to,
2. Even if it's really hard you should face your problems and try to figure out what the best thing to do would be and to try to learn from the situation. I know it's difficult to stay but how would you ever get what you want or deserve when you're always running? I think every girl (not only girls, also boys) deserves what she wishes for. And that doesn't include just what you can get, it includes fighting for your dreams and not to despair if it doesn't work out the first time you try
"Fall seven times; stand up eight". Believe in your dreams and don't sell yourself under your price! I know that you're stronger than you think you are.
And let me tell you a secret, if you think life will be easier when we're getting older, i have to disappoint you, it won't be easier, but we're gonna be stronger because of the failings we learned from.
Second instance:
Stop thinking about you being invisible! You're so much more than you think! Someday you'll know that i'm right, but until this day arrives, keep in mind that:
There are a lot of people out there and even if they keep pretending they are perfect - they'll never be. There are no "perfect" people out there and that's what people forget more and more nowadays. They are blinded by the "perfect girl" which was created and promoted by society. Even if it was just for "fun" at the begining, that "perfect girl" destroys a lot of lives now. Every girl thinks she has to be as near as possible to that "ideal idea of a girl", but they don't. We don't. We all should be unique and have some human failings, because they are what makes us interesting and complete.
We don't have to be ashamed if we aren't a size zero or if we don't have a bunch of designer clothes. It should be enogh if we'd just stop to pretend being someone we aren't.
So, what this whole post should tell you is that you're perfect with all your little imperfections and flaws that honor your humanity. Be yourself and stop pretend to be someone else, because every other person is already taken. It's hard to figure out who you really are, and i'm totally aware of that, but until you know who you are and what you want to be, i'm there for you to help figuring it out.
I'm gonna show you some outfit ideas in which you can mix a lot of personalities of yours and i hope that also your style is gonna push you a step forward on your/our journey.
Sincerely your
Austrian Fashion Blogger! ♥
